Hahaha, no, this one's not angry.
But I do seem to do a lot of these... I should make my own private ranting board where people who are really pissed off can come and yell back, hehe.
But you know what really annoys me? Horribly effeminate gay men who are doing it just to do it.
I mean... I've had friends from pretty much every social stereotype imaginable (including the effeminate gay, actually) so I'm really reluctant to judge someone based on their behavior, but....
When you go out of your way to slap a label on yourself, what are you proving?
Look, you don't need to ADVERTISE your sexuality... as annoying as straight men desperately trying to defend their sexuality by beating the shit out of anyone who challenges it are, gay men who feel that they are not really gay until they are dressed up like women are worse... because they are giving other people a reason to single them out.
Why do we divide ourselves by race, class, sexuality? Every time I see a kid dressed up like a gangster just because he's black or a guy wearing a fitted pink shirt just because he's gay I want to rip my hair out. Yeah, we're all individuals, and kudos to you if you really want to strut your stuff... but deep down, we're all so much more alike than we are different!
Here's something we've all seen... that girl wearing the low-cut top complaining about how guys are always oogling her boobs... well you're PUTTING THEM ON DISPLAY. You are
asking for the attention you are being given. By wearing a low cut top, you're not saying "I'm pretty." You're saying "I'm desperate, please fuck me." The same way a guy decked out in hair gel and makeup is not saying "I'm gay" but "I'm so desperate to stand out that it's ludicrous for me to ever expect to be treated like the guy next to me."
Stereotypes wouldn't exist if people didn't play into them. People always think I'm a lesbian because I dress like a boy... no, I actually dress like a boy because girl's pants are too tight and I actually don't like people staring at my boobs. People only assume I'm a lesbian because a ton of other lesbian girls adhere straight to the "dyke" stereotype. If you like women, well... shouldn't you be proud to be one yourself? Will you feel pretty if you wear makeup? Then do it! Fuck your sexuality! We're all trying so hard to be unique that we're becoming one another's CLONES!
If you're just a genuinely effeminate guy, you have nothing to be ashamed of. That's your personality, and should have nothing to do with your sexuality. (This is really heart-breaking with straight guys, because they always feel so pressured to hide these emotions.) If you would honestly rather throw your emotions to hell and live life for the sheer thrill... hey, that's a perfectly good option, too! Go for it! Just
be yourself, for the love of god.
As long as we ask to be divided, we will be.
Think about that.
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Deviants that make my heart go pitter-patter:
Clubs that make my... you know....
+wanders through the mist+
